Everyone is obsessed these days with the ideas of attractiveness. There is a tidal wave of products that are geared toward health and wellness (most of which don’t work). There are also a ton of exercise products or quick weight loss product that are often much better at lightening your wallet rather than your body, but there are a few ways in which a man can (relatively) quickly boost their attractiveness without having to do much of anything.
It seems a bit balmy, but appearance is something which is important to relationships and particularly in the case of a one night stand, you’re going to want to put these tricks to use.
This is going to sound strange, but if you’re having dinner with a potential affair partner, it’s better to take smaller bites. You don’t need to be dainty, but the last thing any woman wants to see is a man who is stuffing his face with food. When it makes it harder to talk or causes breaks in the conversation, you’re much less likely to get laid than the man who takes smaller bites. It means that she doesn’t need to see you with bulging cheeks or working too hard on swallowing your meat.
You know how your mother always told you to sit up straight? Well she was right. Studies have found that taller people are more likely to be in executive positions, but more importantly taller men are more likely to get the women than males who are shorter in stature. Maybe it’s something bred into our genetic codes, but women are more attracted to men who are taller than them. Men who have good postures look like they have broader shoulders, they look slimmer and perhaps they end up exuding a more masculine air.
This won’t help you if you’re looking for something more long term, but following up on the last point, you’ll be able to get more women for short term relationships if you are a taller man. While towering over a woman isn’t necessary, it has been found that women prefer men who are a couple inches taller than them at least. Shoe lifts are easy to disguise and that extra half-inch just might get you past the goalposts so you can score.
Far from this being about the overpowering smell of too much cologne, we are here to announce that it is less that too much cologne is overpowering and more that using less cologne allows your natural scent to come through. When the scent of cologne and your natural smell are mixed, it gives a better indication of who you are. There is currently research being done on the role of the nose in relationship, but easy up on the cologne some can’t hurt. It’s wonderful for a woman to step close and only be able to smell you then.
Another thing that mom got right. There is little that will turn women off more than a man with bad teeth and bad breath. Especially now when we can be so picky about our hygiene, it is considered to be bad form to have bad breath. Even if you don’t have time to brush, keep a pack of gum or mints on hand because there are few people who would want to taste what you had for lunch when they kiss you.
Now this one only works in regard to one night stands. Women tend to be more attracted to someone who has a moody stoicism to them. There’s something that’s just electric about a man who has a darkness to them, but is still kind and everything a woman is looking for at that moment. Consider making yourself into Twilight’s Edward for a night. It might be distasteful, but it will get you laid.
There are some women who love facial hair and we’re not saying that you need to get rid of it. You can use facial hair to enhance features that you don’t have or even to change the shape of your face, presenting an optical illusion that is more appealing to the women who you want to have an affair with. One thing that is important when it comes to facial hair is keeping things symmetrical as even slightly lopsided trimming can change the look of your face in a way that wouldn’t be complimentary.
Everyone has colors that look best on them, but so few people know it. Take some time and get a magazine that can explain what would look best for you and make sure you have clothes which accentuate the body parts you like, while drawing attention away from body parts that you don’t. There is a huge industry which has built up around doing this for females, but there is no reason why you shouldn’t take advantage of it as well. You are going to want to avoid shirts that are too tight as well as shirts that are too loose with most men looking best when they are wearing long sleeved shirts.
It’s something which is inescapable in today’s world. While in the seventies the majority of women wanted their men hairy, the majority of women today prefer a manscaped man. Men who take care to trim, shave or wax their body hair are seen as closer to the ideal type of most women than men who do not. For those who want to roll their eyes at this, you can take a look at how the idea of female bodies has changed. For both sexes in the modern world, less body hair is better than more body hair.
No one ever wants to do it, but exercise will help you in the long term. More than that, exercising with weights a small amount of time before a date will make your muscles seem more firm and toned than if you exercised in the morning. Being leaner and more fit will definitely help your chances in getting the woman you want for the night, but the bottom line to most of these suggestions is to take care of yourself. If you let yourself go or don’t seem to care about what you look like, it’s unlikely that you’ll find what you’re looking for when you’re cruising at a bar.