There is something in the power of a woman's smile that can make everything a little bit better and those who are having extramarital affairs are no exception. When you see her face light up and her smile blossom, you know that you've done something right which will help raise your mood as well.
How can you do these things without going full cheesy though? There are plenty of ways you can do things to make a woman that you're interested in smile, but no one really thinks much of them because they're little things. Just like when it comes to the negative things in your life, however, the little things add up and will have her in a good mood more regularly.
5) Send her cute gifs and things from social media sites.
Now you don't want to advertise your affair through social media. After all, look at all the trouble that people like Anthony Weiner have found themselves in because of the power of social media sites like twitter and facebook. What social media is good for though is finding interesting or cute gifs. If you spend some time on sites like imgur, you're bound to find something that you think your affair partner would like. Just pass them on, make her smile at the cute animals.
4) When she's having a bad day, listen.
We all had bad days and more than that, we live in a high stress world where performance is key. When she's having a bad day and you know it, don't do something over the top like send her flowers (although you can surprise her with some on your date if you'd like), but instead send some reassurance that you know she's brilliant at what she does. Be careful not to put anyone else down in this text or email since while the negativity might not directed at her it will affect the positive message overall.
3) Pick her up from work.
You want to be careful about this since there is the chance that you could be spotted, but let her know that rather than fighting the rush hour crowds in the subway she can be sitting with you in an air-conditioned car listening to the radio. Have her meet you a little way from work and you can go to your date directly. This shows not only that you're thinking of her, but that you're willing to put yourself out there as well since this is going to take up some of your time.
2) Spend your date night on her.
This is something that you want to do when you've been with an affair partner for a while and she's been going through a very rough spot in her life. Find out something she would love to do and surprise her with it. Whether it's going to see a musical or even something as simple as going to get her nails done, you're going to see her eyes light up. Even though it's something that you might not want to do, you're going to make her night by being willing to do it.
1) Make her a mixtape.
The mix tape is not dead! Okay, well actual tapes are pretty dead, but make a playlist for her that she can listen to on her way to work. Once you're with someone for awhile, you get a pretty good sense of their music taste so make her a playlist that she can listen to on the bad days. It can either be a physical CD or you can put it on one of the music social media sites like 8tracks if you feel like being quite sneaky about it. It will make her day and every time she listens to it, she's going to smile.