Now that the VMAs are over and people are mostly done reeling over Miley Cyrus’ inventive performance, we can move on with our lives and your affairs. People often ask why they should get into an affair and the truth of the matter is that we don’t endorse affairs. We support people who have affairs, we help those who want to find something more in their lives so they can be happy, but if you’re happy with your marriage and there’s nothing that you think you’re missing then don’t have an affair. We’d never suggest that you break up your marriage to have an affair, it’s when your marriage is already broken that you should have one.
Not sure if you’re someone who should be having an affair? Well it’s something that should take some thought and if you’re not sure that you’re ready for an affair then don’t have one. There are too many reasons that people enter into affairs that we’d never be able to list all of them since the choice is a deeply personal one, but we can give you some questions to ask yourself.
Have you ever felt like you’re not getting enough of something? Whether it’s emotional companionship or sex, human beings have needs that should be filled. If they’re not filled then you can find yourself getting depressed or worn out. Just like food, you have emotional and sexual requirements that are unhealthy to ignore for long periods of time. If it’s a discomfort that can be shrugged off then go on with your life, but if you’re starting to really miss these things and feel like there’s something missing in your life then it’s probably time for an affair.
Affairs take money. They’re not going to break your bank and take up all of the money that you have, but you’re going to at least have enough disposable income for dinner or for the gas to make it to where you’re meeting your affair partner. If you don’t have that money, then don’t have an affair. If you can’t put even a little bit of money away then you’ve got bigger problems that you should probably be focusing on.
Affairs take up time and while you want to make sure that you’ve got enough time for an affair, you have to make sure it’s enough disposable time. The point of an affair is not to break up your family and to be able to continue with things the way they are while getting what’s missing in your life. So you need to have enough time that you can fit the affair in. If you can have an affair once every couple months then it’s worth it, if you have time for more then by all means, go for it. If you’re looking at your time table though and you wouldn’t be able to make any time at all for that rendezvous without greatly changing around your schedule for work or home then don’t do it.