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The Five Killer Mistakes Men Make on Ashley Madison!

Here are the top five mistakes men make when they start to date online and how to avoid them!


Having a boring, average profile!

Women see tons of profiles, and many of them are either mostly blank or full of cliché answers. You have to put some real effort into your profile to make it stand out in the crowd.

Crafting a unique, well-thought-out profile will instantly give you an advantage over 90% of the other men on


Create an interesting/different profile with some humor.

Be sure not to have anything negative in your profile. Example: Don’t talk about how much you hate your job, or how unhappy you are in your life. That will give the impression that you are on the website because of desperation and also make you sound extremely needy and clingy. Keep it fresh and funny—make it sexy.


Have a good, recent photo!

Try a head and shoulders shot and smiling to begin with, whether you want the picture to be public or private. Pick only your best shots; quality is better than quantity.


Place too high a value on a potential date!

This is another common mistake when first starting out.

Your mind plays tricks on you and you can put the other person on a pedestal before even meeting her, especially if you haven’t had a date for a while. Remain focused, but also remember, you haven’t even met her yet.


Treat every potential date as an opportunity for her to impress you as much as you want to impress her, and see if you’re interested in her.


Never expect to meet the perfect person on a first date. Manage your expectations and you’ll never be disappointed and sometimes pleasantly surprised!


Wait too long to meet!

The longer you leave it before you meet, the less likely it is to happen. Forget about emailing for months and getting all worked up over email. As soon as possible, meet for a casual coffee and a chat to see if you like each other.

This will save you a lot of time, energy, and disappointment.


Ask for a coffee date in the first two weeks of messaging.


If she doesn’t agree to meet, move on and don’t worry about it.


Message interstate and overseas members!

It’s tempting to do but is a complete waste of your time, energy and focus. Unless you are planning to be in that particular city or state for work, don’t bother trying to build something that in reality will never happen.

Unless you are rich and have a lot of spare time, don’t bother with interstate and overseas profiles.

What are the odds of you two ever actually hooking up?



Only focus on and contact women in your immediate area.


Keep it down to 100 km radius from your home. This will keep your expenses and travel time down.


Let her choose the location.

This is more important than it sounds. Women like to be led by a decisive man. So suggest the place, time and date.

If she can’t make it when you suggest, reschedule to suit her within reason.

She will get the impression you are not timid and are comfortable making decisions.


Make the first date during a week night. This will suggest you have a life and are busy on the weekend. Casual dating is not as simple as regular dating, and letting the possible partner that you still have a life outside of AM will make them aware of your current commitments with family and friends.


Be relaxed at the coffee date. Don’t mention your obligations or that you haven’t been dating for a long time. Just have some fun and be happy.

Avoiding these five mistakes will save you a lot of time, money, energy, and focus with online dating. This will prevent you from quitting before you get the results you desire and deserve on

Most of all, have fun!


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